Year of Acceptance
Journey from rejection to acceptance
Vulnerability is frightening, but I've found a life lived with vulnerability is a life worth living. I view my vulnerability as a journey to growth and change. And my growth game is strong, even though I've been afraid. Afraid to be hurt or to be taken advantage of, but I believe the risk is well worth the payoff.
Many guests who come to a retreat on their own. I know they feel out of their comfort zone and especially vulnerable. The safe and sacred space of our Retreat is a perfect place to dip your toe into vulnerability. View our upcoming retreats here
For an inspiring (and funny) talk on vulnerability, see Brene Brown's Netflix Special. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend it. I had the honor of seeing Brene a couple years ago in person - what incredible energy. And she's an introvert too! Here's also her Ted Talk which is a great watch.
I believe we are fearful to be found defenseless, so we keep our guards up and our hearts closed down. It's terrifying to let someone see us as we truly are, where our desperate needs and raw emotions lie exposed. But to live a deeply connected life, our vulnerability must come out into the open where we can grow and change; finding a place where we allow ourselves to breathe deeply and open up to the joy of endless possibilities that surround us in each passing moment. And though it may be scary, as with anything else, you can start with baby steps.
We asked you what vulnerability means to you. Thank you for opening up your hearts to us! Here's some of what you shared:
Vulnerability: An Adventure
Since 2004, I've had the privilege of meeting so many amazing women at the retreats I've hosted. I've witnessed incredible changes in women's lives, I believe coming to a retreat opens up a door of possibility for the women who are ready for it. Willingness to be vulnerable creates a richer retreat experience.
As I observe diverse groups of women gathering together in the intimate setting of Retreat in the Pines, beginning or continuing their journey of lowering their walls, I am truly humbled by the connection and healing that occurs. It has been my experience, the women who are willing to open up and share with one another and allow themselves to be vulnerable, go home with a renewed perspective on life.
Heart Wide Open
Keeping my guard up, not allowing my heart to open, is seemingly "safe." Yet it seems to be a recipe for a less connected existence. That's not what I want... I know its scary, but I want to live and love with my heart wide open, embracing that vulnerable side of me on a daily basis. Living intentionally in the present moment, rewarded by the open heart that comes alive with adventures and freedom.
What about you? Are you ready to open your heart to the possibilities of vulnerability?
I believe vulnerability - like kindness, gratitude and mindfulness - is a practice. I'm not sure if it ever gets easy, but the more you allow yourself to be vulnerable, the more you can settle yourself into a routine of vulnerability, where it begins to feel familiar. I wouldn't recommend walking up to a perfect stranger and sharing your secrets! Start with a close friend and share something you may not have shared before.
Seek Vulnerable Moments
Share your struggles with a friend. Stop pretending everything is ok. Tell someone how you really feel. Do something that completely terrifies you - whether it's a blind date, skydiving or talking in front of a group.
Vulnerable moments, no matter how terrifying and no matter the outcome, are the sweet spots in life when we begin to open and even change.